Hot is hot. Of course, it still remains in the eye of the beholder...

My type doesn't usually gravitate around beautiful faces. Nor does it simply gravitate on a great physique. Both qualities however, contribute to the wholesomeness and being of a person. I enjoy a beautiful face and I think it's hot to have a great body but nothing stimulates me more than the brain and the heart of a person. I know, I know. You may be thinking... "Are you effin kidding me?!" But I'm serious as a heart attack! ;) (Sheesh - that is so 80s).

When you meet someone, you generally get attracted by the looks and the body. Attraction at that level is very premature. It grows and it develops. You ever wonder why we see gorgeous guys with girls not worthy of a second look and vice versa? That is because they found something in that person that kept the attraction going. You can challenge this. Take a look around you and tell me if I'm not correct. True Male Beauty - - still remains in the eye of the beholder.

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Models and Aspiring Models - - are you out there?

It's a very tough industry. Modeling can make you or break you. I know lots of guys who look awesome but still doesn't have the "IT" factor for movies or magazines to cast them. They have godly bodies and yet, they still don't make the cut.

What makes a model a great model? Are you guys out there? What do you think should be the qualities they should look for?

I would say that there really is something that you can call the "IT" factor. I can look at Antonio Sabato Jr. and know that he has it. Ashton Kutcher has it as well but in a different kind of way. How about Michael Biserta? He is gorgeous but why wouldn't he make the cut if you're casting models for Calvin Klein? That's just it - - you have to have IT and when you do, it has to FIT the mold you are competing for. Am I making sense?

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It's going somewhere...

My virtual relationship is going strong. We send text messages all day long, talk online using VoiP and webcam. It's nice. We exchange emails, share stories and music and even share favorite things over the net. And no, we've never done phone sex or cam sex. It seems too weird.

I really like him. He's young, he's vibrant - a little moody but that's about all. Most of the time we laugh, and we share jokes. We even fight. Yet, it still seems a bit strange. He is thousands and thousands of miles away from me. I have a trip planned next year to visit him and on the other hand, he is ready to move to the U.S. He has the credentials and the ability to come here. He is a nurse. We all know that there will be a shortage of nurses in the U.S. (if there isn't one already) as the baby boomers retire and age. Within the next 10 years and beyond, we will need health care workers in this country to take care of the aging.

I don't know. I still have that image in the back of my mind that we may not click once we see each other face-to-face. I have always found it to be different when you're far apart like this. We wonder in awe and excitement of how things can be. But do we really know? We don't. I guess that adds to the mystery and intrigue of online relationship.

I will tell you how it's going (and if it's still going) as we take the road to closeness and form somewhat of a tie between us. When I meet him in April, you will know exactly how I feel once I return. So keep watch.

In the interim, let me share one of the most gorgeous models around. Jake Campione. He's been featured by Abercrombie, Ralph Lauren and many other designers out there. I'm certain that you would agree that he's at the top of the ranks of our Male Beauties.

Here is JAKE CAMPIONE.

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